A sucker for good middot…
My house is full of books. Overflowing, in fact. Kids’ books, adult books, baby books, Jewish books, science books, magazines. They are literally bursting out of every shelf on every floor of the house. Most of them were hand-me-downs, or gifts from my generous parents. Some are yard sale and “freecycling” finds. I don’t pay retail for books. Retail for books? But there are libraries out there!
Every month my children come home from school with a Scholastic Book Club Order Form. Not only are they told they have a deadline to bring it back, and that there are cheapo toys offered with 1/3 of the offerings, but they are also informed that the school gets books from the company if we order…. all of which is, of course, reflected in the price of the books. Five kids with order forms every month. And I resist. I do. I recommend that my children take a good look at the bookshelf in their room and select 20 books to discard. This usually solves the problem. Sometimes, I give them a “maybe” when the pleas are strong, and then they forget about it. One of those “maybes” led last week to this from one of my 9 yos:
“Dearest Ima,
I really love you and I am so grateful and you get me so much stuff I want, so much things!
You once said I could have one book from the book order. I am pretty sure this is the last book order. I really really want one book. Please can I have it?
I’ll be happy with anything you say about it, ”
Now please tell me that you would be able to say no?!?
Yeah, so I’m a sucker and I’d totally get my kid a book, some ice cream, and possibly a puppy for that one.
Ok, probably not a puppy, but I’d think about it for a second.
Asking my 8yo if she would be willing to spend her money on it normally ends the conversation. My money, no problem, HER money – well that’s only for important things!
The Scholastic books on order are still around? I used to bring those home from school in the 70s, and my mother would never let me order a book. Why buy books when I had a library card? Every month the box would come into the classroom and the teacher would give out the books, and I would just sit there wishing she called me name.
Finally, one year, in the sixth grade, I was allowed to order one, just one, book. I had to choose carefully, this was my one shot. I got _Are You There God? It’s Me, Margaret_ by Judy Blume. I still have it, 35 years later!
Now I get to be the mommy, and I’m a total sucker and let my kids buy as many books as they can read, even if they do have a library card. So let your kid order a book, it’s a wonderful feeling when that box comes and the teacher calls your name! I promise!
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